Subtle Signs A Man is Into You (BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS)

Subtle Signs A Man is Into You (BODY LANGUAGE SECRETS)

Although women have over 50 different ways of unintentional flirting, men generally do not make their interest known with more than 10. While some of these signs are straightforward, others seem completely baffling. View on to discover subconscious ways a man uses his body language to tell you that you’re his girl.
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number one

Observe your date’s face. Most flirting starts with facial expressions. Here are a few things to watch for in your date’s face:
The head tilt. If your date tilts his head slightly when he looks at you, you can bet he’s subconsciously showing you he likes you.
The eyebrow flash. In other words, watch for your man to lift his eyebrows when he looks over at you. Though subtle, men tend to lift their eyebrows quickly when they see someone they’re attracted to.
Flared nostrils. Often, a man’s nostrils will flare slightly when he’s interested in a woman. This gives his face a more “open” expression and betters his chances of appearing attractive to you
A flirtatious smile. There are a number of flirtatious smiles a boy can flash at you when you’re just getting to know each other:
The sneer. While this can come across as cute and coy, it’s often an indication that the boy just wants something physical. This half smile is meant to look mysterious and alluring without inviting you to get emotionally attached.
The closed mouth smile. This is usually construed as a good thing; he’s into you, but he’s shy. Don’t be surprised if he takes a while to open up to you.
The smirk. This one is easy to get confused with the closed mouth smile. However, generally the smirk will come from one side of the mouth, whereas the open mouth smile will be the same on both sides.
number two
Notice his eye contact. If you have just met, he may look away every time he catches you looking at him. As you get more comfortable together, you’ll notice stronger eye contact and gazes that last longer than a couple seconds.
number three
Watch his chest. A man keeps his torso pointed towards the most important thing in the room . Therefore, a man who is interested in you will keep his chest and shoulders pointed at you, even if he is looking in a different direction.
Note that this also holds true for his pelvis. If you’re standing apart and he keeps his pelvis pointed at you, even when he turns, he’s probably interested.
number four

Peek at his legs. If he’s standing with his feet set wide apart, he’s trying to look powerful and show off for you.
number five

Be mindful of his hands. If he hooks his hands on his belt loop or pockets, he may be trying to subconsciously move your attention to that part of his body. Likewise, standing with his hands on his hips is a subconscious way for your date to look powerful and sexy for you
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number six

Pay attention to his touch. A man who is interested will find any excuse to touch you. This could be anything from simply touching your arm when you say something funny to reaching over and brushing an eyelash off your face.
Where he touches you is also important. If your date is trying to flirt with you, he’ll make a point to touch your back, upper thigh/arm, or your sides.[9] He also may try to grab your elbow to guide you through a crowd, showing you and everyone else that he’s with you.
number seven

Hugging. When you hug, is the duration of the hug longer than 5-10 seconds? Platonic hugs are usually about that, but if he’s holding on longer than that, it probably means he doesn’t want it to be a ‘just friends’ hug. If he lingers and holds on a little when you pull away, you know he doesn’t want to let go.
This may change based on the two people’s comfort level, but if he gently strokes your back or sways a little while you hug, he probably really cares about you. He may also try to hug you so that your arms go around his neck and his arms around your waist. Waists are fascinating to guys because they don’t have them, so he’ll want to hug you around the waist.
number eight
Watch his hands. As a man begins to flirt more, he’ll start to use his hands more, too. He’ll get more animated and use more gestures when he speaks. He’ll also start to fidget more and use his hands to fix his hair, clothing, etc. Here are some examples of behavior to watch for:
He fixes his hair. Watch him when you get up to leave a room. Do his hands immediately fly up to fix his hair? Smoothing or ruffling his hair is a sign he’s trying to look good for you.
He touches his face. When humans are attracted to someone, their skin (especially on their face) becomes more sensitive. Therefore, look for him to continuously rub his chin, cheek, or lips. He may also lick his lips or take frequent sips from his drink.
He rubs his stomach. While this can be a sign of insecurity, there’s a good chance that it also means your man is trying to get you to notice him.
He smooths his shirt or pants. This form of preening can mean both that he’s nervous and that he’s trying to look his best for you.
He offers you his hand palm-up. If you’re at the hand-holding stage, pay attention to the way he offers you his hand. If his palm is facing up, he’s hoping to connect on more than just a physical level.
number nine

Look at his posture. This is a tricky one, but if your man usually has good posture, look for slight slouching around you. This indicates not only that he feels comfortable around you, but also that he wants to take you into his arms.
number ten
Gauge his giggle-factor. Does he laugh easily around you? A man who is attracted to and comfortable around you will laugh more easily than a man who couldn’t care less. In addition, he may try harder to make you laugh or get you to notice him. If your date is exceptionally silly around you or exceptionally loud when you’re in the same room, you can bet he’s hoping you find him as funny as he finds you.
number eleven

Take careful watch when he is standing near you. He may try to move in closer when you don’t seem to be watching to test if you feel comfortable around him. In normal conversation, a man will be 1.5–2 feet (0.5–0.6 m) away from another person. If he is closer, you can take that as a sign that he’s attracted to you.
number twelve

Notice proximity when you sit next to each other. If your calves are pressed against one another, if he leans in very close pressed against your shoulder to whisper to you, if he leans his head on yours or on your shoulder, if he nudges you or lightly pushes you, these are all signs he’s interested in you.
number thirteen

Comparing his body to yours. It may sound creepy, but does he hold out his hand to compare how much smaller your hands are to his? Is he fascinated by the difference in your leg-torso proportions and his? Does he look at your feet when they are next to his? If he is interested in you as a person, he’ll be interested in your body as well as it is one component of who you are. Depending on the guy this might come off as either an almost child-like curiosity about your body to the other extreme of a more ‘checking-you-out’ kind of sexual vibe. This should hopefully be a clue to if he likes you as a person or just your body.
number fourteen

Look deep into his eyes. Does he blink frequently? Do his pupils dilate around you? These are both indications that he’s interested in you. In addition, he may return your long stare. Long lasting, comfortable (not piercing) eye contact is a sign that he wants to get to know you.
Notice the pattern in which he looks at you. If he moves his eyes in a triangular pattern (eye to eye to nose/mouth), he likes the way you look. . This is also true if he lets you notice him checking you out.

Subtle Signs He’s Into You (Body Language SECRETS)

HOW TO FLIRT WITH A GUY

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Flirting with a cute guy might seem like an impossible task, but it’s easier than you think! You can flirt with a guy from across the room by relying on friendly body language, like a coy smile or a playful hair flip. To flirt with him in person, light touching, playful teasing, and sincere compliments work well. Flirting via text can be done with compliments and invitations to hang out.
number one
Make eye contact. Eye contact is a key flirting technique which can be implemented anywhere, at any time, as long as your crush is in sight. While you don’t want it to look like you’re staring deep into his soul, lingering eye contact will show him you’re interested.
It will also be a good indicator of his interest—if he holds the eye contact, he’s probably into you. If he looks away he might just be shy.
One good trick is to look directly at him until he catches you looking. When he does, hold eye contact for a moment or two before smiling and looking away.
If you’re feeling particularly cheeky, you could throw in a wink!
number two
Smile. Studies have shown that smiling actually makes you more attractive to other people, so work that to your advantage by flashing those pearly whites!
Smiling makes you seem friendlier and more approachable, which might be just the push your crush needs to come over and talk to you!
Smiling will also make you feel happier and more confident two essential ingredients of successful flirting.
number three

Use body language. Even if you haven’t opened your mouth, you can say a great deal using just your body language. Smiling and eye contact are part of this, but there are a few other things you should be aware of:
Don’t cross your arms. Crossing your arms is like the opposite of smiling – it makes you seem closed off and unapproachable, thus scaring your man away. Some people do this unconsciously when they’re nervous, so make sure to keep an eye on it.
Flip your hair. Flipping your hair is a very feminine action, as it draws attention to your lustrous locks. It is also a well-recognized flirty action – so if you flip or play with your hair in front of a guy, he’ll probably know you’re flirting with him.
Play with your jewelry. Playing with jewelry, such as a necklace, draws attention to your neckline, which many guys find attractive in a girl.
number four
Find subtle ways to put yourself in his path. In order to flirt, you need to be around the object of your affection as often as possible. Make a conscious effort to put yourself in his path, without seeming too obvious.
Walk past his desk on your way out the door, or take your dog to the same park he plays soccer at.
Be careful not to overdo this, though, or you’ll end up looking like a stalker.
number five

Look your best. Give yourself an added boost of confidence by looking your very best whenever your crush is around. This doesn’t mean tiny skirts, high heels and lashings of mascara – it just means that you should take some pride in your appearance by being well-groomed and neatly dressed. If you look your best, you’ll feel your best – which is essential for successful flirting!
Keep your hair clean and fresh-smelling, brush your teeth, shave where necessary, paint your nails – anything that makes you feel pretty and puts an extra pep in your step.
Wear clean, non-wrinkled clothes that you feel comfortable in – you can’t go wrong with a nice fitting pair of jeans!
Try out different hairstyles – curly, straight, in a bun, in a fishtail braid – to create a fresh new look each day. The same goes for make-up – experiment with different colors and trends til you find a look that makes you feel good.
number six

Consider making the first move. Sure, you could wait for him to come to you. But there’s a lot of expectation on guys to start the pursuit, and it can get tiring. If you approach him, you’ll instantly stand out among all the other girls he might consider dating — and you get to pick the perfect moment for you.
number seven
Start talking. One of the best ways to move the situation along and flirt more openly is to get involved in a conversation with your crush. Find an opportunity to chat him up about something you have in common, whether it’s school, work, or a recent event.
Open with a question. This will show you’re interested in getting to know him, not just interested in talking about yourself. Ask him what he thought of the latest Fast and Furious installment or whether he did anything fun over the weekend.
Try to avoid asking questions that can be answered with a simple “yes” or “no” – this is a surefire way to end the conversation before it’s even begun.
Transition to talking about him. People love to talk about themselves, so try to get him started on something he’s passionate about – whether it’s music, sport or plans for the future.
Use his name a lot. It’s a fact that people love to hear their own name in conversation – especially when it’s used by a member of the opposite sex! Calling your crush by his name will send a tingle up his spine and create a sense of intimacy between you.
number eight

Smile and laugh. Smiling and laughing throughout your conversation shows that you’re comfortable around your crush and, more than that, that you enjoy listening to him talk.
It will also make you look more attractive and you will come across as a happy, fun-loving person – which is exactly how you want him to view you.
Laughing at his jokes will make him feel funny, which guys always like. Be careful not to overdo it though – you don’t want to sound like a cackling hyena and scare him away!
number nine

Break the touch barrier. Finding small ways to touch your crush is an obvious signal that you’re flirting, and shows him that you’re willing to make a small level of physical contact. Try doing it in these ways:
Touch his forearm lightly while you’re talking. When he makes a funny joke, reach your hand out and touch his arm while you’re laughing. Alternatively, you can do this as a form of playful or genuine consolation.
Casually put a hand or elbow on his shoulder. This creates a sense of camaraderie between you and shows him that you feel completely comfortable around him.
“Accidentally” lean into him if you’re walking together. If you’re already flirty and you want to move things to the next level, brush your hand against his and see how he reacts.
Straighten his collar. Another sneaky tactic you can use to touch your crush is to tell him that his shirt collar (or tie) is crooked, so you can lean in to fix it. Stand squarely in front of him so you’re face to face, then casually brush your fingers against his neck as you adjust his collar. When you’re done, look him in the eyes and say “that’s better!” before taking a step back.
number ten

Draw attention to your body. Guys are visual creatures, so nothing gets them going like a sneaky flash of flesh here and there. Subtly drawing attention to your body every now and then will get his heart racing and help him to realize how much he likes you.
Rub your shoulder. Pretend you have an ache in your shoulder and pull down the neckline of your top, exposing your skin as you massage it. If you’re lucky, he’ll offer to rub it better for you.
Ask if you should get your belly button pierced. For tummy-confident girls, one good technique is to pull up your top slightly and tell him you were thinking of getting your belly button pierced, then ask for his opinion on the matter. If he stammers out an answer, you’ll know your cheeky trick caught his attention.
Lick your lips. Make him think about kissing you by drawing attention to your lips in front of him. Lick your lips, bite them, apply some lip gloss – anything as long as you do it with an air of nonchalance.
Be careful not to overdo things here – drawing attention to your body can work very well, but only if it’s used in moderation. Otherwise you can seem desperate and attention-seeking, so avoid prancing around in front of him in a bikini (unless you’re at the beach – in which case; go for it!)
number eleven

Dance with him. Dancing with a guy is a fun way to show him that you’re into him, without being too serious. It could be at a school dance or a nightclub, it doesn’t matter as long as you get some one-on-one time together.
Make it very obvious that you’re choosing to dance with him. Grab his hands and pull him away from the group. If he goes with you willingly, you’ll know that he’s into it.
You can try to dance sexily if you like, but avoid grinding on him or being too overtly sexual – it’s inappropriate in front of other people and you might just make him feel uncomfortable.
If he’s an awkward dancer, you can try to make him feel more at ease by breaking out some wacky dance moves of your own – just be silly and have fun with it – if you can make him laugh, then it’s worth it.
Try to work in a slow dance if you can. Put your arms on his shoulders and let him hold you tightly around the waist. Gaze up into his eyes as you gently sway – he’ll melt inside.
number twelve
Pay him a compliment. Don’t expect the compliments to go one-way — guys love to be complimented too! Making your crush feel noticed and appreciated shows him that you’re interested in him as a person, and that you’re paying attention to what’s important. Here’s how to make your compliment even more amazing:
Be specific. The more specific you are, the more personal the compliment will be. If you say something generic such as “I think you’re hot,” chances will be that he’s heard it before. If you focus on a specific trait or quality that you love, the compliment will be fresh and you’ll stick out in his mind.
If he’s on a sports team and you saw him play, praise his performance. If you heard him playing his guitar or drums, compliment his playing. If you’re feeling more intimate, tell him that you love the color of his eyes – and use it as an excuse to gaze into them.
When giving the compliment, lean in close and lower your voice slightly. This makes the compliment seem intimate and secret.
Make eye contact while you give the compliment and keep smiling slightly. This will highlight your sincerity and show him that you’re genuinely impressed.
Just make sure not to overdo it on the compliments or make them too fake. This will significantly lessen their impact and he might stop taking you seriously. One simple, sincere compliment is better than 100 fake ones.
number thirteen

Playfully tease him. Some playful teasing can be a great flirting technique – if used correctly. Teasing can create a sense of intimacy and show the guy that you have a sense of humor. Just be warned – if you give it, you need to be able to take it!
Tease him about small, unimportant things – pretend you think he has a crush on his Math teacher, or joke that he loves his dog more than any human being.
If he’s particularly good looking, ask him how his Abercrombie interview went; if he’s just been to the gym, make an exaggerated comment about his huge muscles – rather than being offensive, you want your teasing to be more of a veiled compliment!
Never get too personal with your teasing, or he might take it the wrong way – insulting his family, his performance at work or school, or criticizing his appearance should be off-limits – at least until you know him better.
number fourteen

Leave him wanting more. Don’t let the conversation drag on so long that he has time to get bored or distracted. Instead, walk away while he’s still interested so that he can’t wait to see you again.
Leave an opening for next time. If you say, “I have to run, but maybe I’ll see you around tomorrow?”, you’ve already planted the idea that you’ll see him again.
Lean in like you want a kiss, but at the last minute turn your head and whisper “I had a great time” in his ear.
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number one

Text him “accidentally”. If you’re not sure how to get a text conversation going, one good tactic is to text him pretending you think he’s someone else, like you’re best friend.
Say something like “Haha, yeah right! So what are you doing this weekend?:)”
Give it a minute or two, then send a second message saying something like “Oops, wrong person, sorry! But what are you doing this weekend? ;)”
This will make it seem like you didn’t intentionally start a conversation, but you’re happy to have one anyway.
number two
Don’t be boring. Boring text messages are pointless – texting things like “what’s up?” or “what’s the weather forecast for tomorrow?” is deeply uninteresting and won’t get you very far with your crush. Try to be unique and interesting – only send a message if you think it’s going to bring a smile to your crush’s face.
For example, text something like “Just saw a giant teddy bear in the window of a toy shop – made me think of you.” or “Quickly – help me choose: doughnut or chocolate muffin?”
number three

Leave some questions hanging. Once you’re in a text conversation, try not to be overly enthusiastic, responding to every single thing in his last message. These kinds of text messages can be confusing and make you seem too eager.
Respond to one or two items per message, but try to leave some of his questions hanging. This will give you an air of mystery and make him want to know the answer even more.
On the same note, don’t bombard him with questions in every message – this will also make you seem over-eager and he might find responding more hassle than it’s worth. Keep your messages short and sweet.
number four
Be suggestive. Once things really get going and you feel more comfortable with your texting, you can start to heat things up a little – dropping not-so-subtle hints that you’re interested in being more than friends.
Play it safe at first – there’s no need to be too racy, you just need to give him the idea that you want to be with him. Something cute like “I’m just about to watch a scary movie – wish you were here to stop me from being too scared!”
If he responds in the same flirty tone, you can feel safe to continue. Try paying him a flirty compliment by saying something like “I can’t stop thinking about how great your arms looked in that shirt today.”
If you want to get a little racier, you could try being even more suggestive. For instance, if he texts you but you don’t reply for at least half an hour you could say something like “Sorry, I was in the shower…” His mind will do the rest.
number five
Don’t send more than two texts in a row without a reply. The rules of texting dictate that you should receive approximately the same number of texts as you send. This means that if you’re sending your crush 20 messages a day and he’s only responding to about 5 of them, you’re seriously overdoing it.
Try to exercise a little self-control and refrain from texting every time your crush pops into your head. Wait until you have something truly interesting and important to say. And if you send more than two texts without receiving a reply, cut yourself off.
You should also avoid always being the first one to text. Be a little mysterious and aloof and wait for him to text you. If he does, you’ll know he’s interested.
Never send messages that only contain answers like “k” or “lol”. This can be extremely frustrating and will give your crush nothing to respond to.
number six
Picture text. Picture texting can be a fun alternative way to communicate – and also ensures that your crush has a picture of you on his phone.
Text him a picture of you and a group of friends at the back or mall and add “wanna join?”
Text him a picture of yourself lying on the couch and write “Bored. Entertain me?”
Text him a picture of a movie poster or concert flyer and just write “Interested?”
number seven

Make a date. Texting can be a great way to ask a guy out, particularly if you’re nervous about doing it face to face. Try to keep it casual by saying something like:
“Hey! I just watched the trailer for the new Batman movie, I’m dying to see it. Wanna go this weekend?” or “Craving a caramel frappuccino! Meet me after school? Coffee’s on me. :)”
Even if he says no, you don’t need to panic. Over text, it’s easy to play it cool. Just say something like “No problem. Some other time.” Then leave it up to him whether to continue the conversation or not.
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HOW TO GET A BUSY GIRL ??

HOW TO GET A BUSY GIRL ??
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So you know, some people love their jobs. Dating a busy person, or in the worst case a workaholic can present its own set of challenges when it comes to keeping your relationship in a good state.
Most people aren’t super invested in their jobs. They don’t care enough about them to put their relationships on the backburner. But if you just so happen to start dating a workaholic, you’ll quickly realize how difficult that can be.
You have to work a bit harder to maintain a healthy relationship than a lot of other couples. And believe me, it will not be easy. But if you care about this person and even admire their work ethic, the extra work is worth it.
HOW TO GET A BUSY GIRL ??
Society tells us to value relationships more than work

For a lot of us, this is just what we believe. We grow up learning that the relationships you build are more important than your job. This can be completely true if you’re not someone who has what you believe a very important job.

But then there are people who end up with their dream jobs. The one thing they want to do most in life is right in front of them and that can make any romantic relationships a lot more difficult. You’re fighting against the norm here. Knowing how to make sure you come out on top is crucial.

Dating a busy person and keeping your relationship healthy

Once again, you’ll have to work hard. It might get difficult at times when you feel like their job is more important than you. But if you’re ready to take on this challenge, here’s how to make sure your relationship stays happy and healthy.

#1 They have to be willing to work for it, too. You can’t be the only person putting forth and effort to make it work. When their job becomes the only thing they care about, your relationship won’t last.

This is the very first thing you have to figure out when you realize you’re dating a workaholic. Ask them if they’re really in it and then see if their actions reflect what they say. Only then can you move forward and try.

#2 Schedule time together. They likely have a very busy schedule. That means you’ll have to find your way into it. Sometimes that means you both have to actually schedule time together. It’s like planning for date nights except you might just be planning time to hang out together uninterrupted at home.

#3 Visit them at work. If they’re at work far more than you are, go ahead and visit them if it’s allowed. You don’t have to stay long. Sometimes all you really need to is bring them a coffee and give them a kiss.

That can do a lot more for your relationship than it seems. This selfless act isn’t jut doing something kind for them. It’s also supporting their work and making an effort to be there during your free time.

#4 Support their work endlessly. When you’re dating a workaholic, you need to remember that they’re passionate about their work. That’s why they do it so much. You have got to be supportive of it if you want your relationship to work out.

If you’re not, they’ll see that. And if they’re a workaholic who really cares about what they’re doing, they won’t want to be with someone who doesn’t see the value in what they do. They’ll choose their job over you if you don’t support them.

#5 Learn more about why it’s so important. Get to know their job better. Ask them why it’s so important to them that they have to be working all the time. Sometimes all you really need is a better understanding of what’s going on in their head in order to make your relationship work out.

#6 Never cancel date nights. Both of you have to keep to this rule. Your scheduled date nights are one of the only things keeping your relationship normal. You have to have that intimate time.

Unless an emergency comes up, you should never be allowed to cancel date nights. And if you absolutely need to, they have to be rescheduled ASAP – preferably for the next day. Having that time to bond and have a sense of normalcy is too important to ignore.

#7 Make sure to stay involved with their work life. Try to help out. Why can’t you put forth some effort to integrate yourself in their work life a bit? Not only will it help you spend more time with them, but it’ll be really meaningful to your partner.

They’ll see the effort you’re making and it’ll feel like they finally found a teammate – someone who understands their priorities.

#8 Communicate when you feel neglected. You have to be able to talk to them. There will be times when their work will start to take over a bit. You have to be able to tell them when you’re feeling neglected so you can get back to a better place.

And they have to be open to receiving this, too. It’ll be easy for them to get upset and try to justify their actions, but they can’t. They have to be understanding and make some time for you again.

#9 Pick up the slack at home. Your significant other works a lot. You likely work a lot less than they do. That means you’ll have to pick up some slack for them. If they have to work all the time and then come home and do a ton of chores while you’ve been doing relatively nothing, it’ll upset them.

Work together to find a happy medium. You obviously don’t have to do every little thing but if you try to make it so you’re doing equal work, your relationship will benefit from it.

#10 Use the time they de-stress from work to bond. After they come home, they’ll want to sit down and not do much. They’re tired and they need to relax. That’s your opportunity to get close and have some intimate time.

Give them a back massage or rub their feet. Make them a dinner so you can eat together when they come home. It’s very simple stuff that can make the biggest difference in the happiness of your relationship.

#11 Never let your sex life lag. This is crucial. When your partner works a lot, they’ll be tired. But the thing is, sex is really important. It’s time for you two to connect and actually feel like a couple. So if you have to, schedule time for it. Don’t let it slack.

#12 Ask them what they need from you. They’re busy and they work a lot. The best way to know how to make a relationship work with them is to ask how. Ask them what they really need. You might be surprised what they ask of you.

When you’re dating a workaholic, things can get really confusing if you’re not sure how to handle it. These tips can ensure your relationship stays in tiptop shape.
here are some rules, to handle your busy woman
1. THEY ARE NOT THE “LAST MINUTE PLANS” TYPE.
If you text them at 2 pm wanting to see them at 6, sorry, but it’s probably not going to happen. Their calendars are usually booked solid, so no, they probably can’t meet up for a random drink, and no, you can’t stop by to watch a movie. they would love to hang out, but please plan in advance. they do well with notice.
2. SPONTANEOUS SLEEPOVERS CAN MESS UP OUR SCHEDULES.
When things are going well and you ask them to spend the night, they’ll probably say yes, but don’t be offended if they get up at 6 a.m. and leave your apartment. It’s not that they are not into you, it’s that they have a ton of stuff to do the next day.
3. THEY CAN’T GIVE BIG CHUNKS OF TIME UP FRONT.
When they meet their dates for dinners, shutting down the restaurant with laughter and conversation would be great… if they had the time. If they seem to be cutting things shorter than you had hoped, it’s not a sign that the date went horribly. It’s likely that they are on to their next thing or home to bed to rest up for another crazy day ahead.
4. MEN THINK THEY ARE UNINTERESTED OR PLAYING A GAME.
If the guys they are into don’t think they are flat out uninterested, they think they are “playing hard to get” or playing a game when they dodge dates they suggest. When they tell you their schedules, they hope that you’ll be able to make plans with them in the spaces they told you they are free. they are not playing any game, that’s just how it is. It’s as simple as that.
5. THEY ARE NOT GOOD AT GOING WITH THE FLOW.
That sounds like a nice idea, but it doesn’t always work for them. Their schedules are pretty precise, so as much as they want to go with this flow everyone seems to be in favor of, it’s just not built into their nature. they like structure and organization.
6. NOT KNOWING WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP IS GOING DRIVES THEM CRAZY.
When they date someone they actually like and they have been out with a few times, they will start to get anxiety about where things are going. It’s not that they want to rush things, they just need to know if they need to make time in our schedules to continue to grow this budding relationship. Are we doing this thing or not? Let them know, because if not, they have stuff to do.
7. CANCELLATIONS ARE TURN-OFFS AND SOMETIMES DEALBREAKERS.
Nothing annoys them more than last minute cancellations of plans. If you’re sick or there was some type of legitimate emergency, that’s cool, but otherwise, they are legitimately frustrated, so don’t be surprised if they are not enthusiastic about rescheduling.
8. THEY NEED CONFIRMATION OF PLANS.
It’s not that they are control freaks, it’s just that they are actually busy and want to be sure everything is still a go. Chances are, they have a busy work life that they balance with their social calendars, everyday life responsibilities, and maybe even a dedicated fitness routine. Because of this, they treat their dates like appointments and they need to confirm they’re still happening.
9. LATENESS SERIOUSLY ANNOYS THEM.
If you’re not on time, they are totally judging you. Not just because you just cut into the time they have scheduled to spend with you, but also because lateness is just plain rude.
10. THEY HATE WASTING THEIR TIME.
Because their time is precious and they don’t have a lot of it so if they have made some for you and it doesn’t work out, they feel genuinely defeated until they bring themselves to try the struggle all over again.
11. She’s not ignoring you.
It’s not that she doesn’t want to text you back or return your calls; she’s got a lot going on. She will get back to you as soon as possible, but be patient with her.
12. Her time is valuable, and your time with her is valuable so use it wisely.
She doesn’t have a lot of free time but that is probably obvious. So when you do get the chance at a chunk of her time, use it wisely. She doesn’t want to “figure something out” she wants to go somewhere, do something. Use the time you get with her to make memories she can remember while she’s on the run and missing you.
13. She needs support.
The busy girls need your support, almost more than others. She needs you to keep her sane and remind her that she can do everything she jumped into. You are her rock, if you give her the support she needs, she will give you the world.
14. If she invites you to events, take the opportunity.
You may feel like you don’t know all of her since she is always somewhere else. If she has the chance and invites you to events with her, she wants to show you what she’s involved in. This is her way of bonding with you while she is out and about. She wants to show you part of her life, take this opening.
15. Her schedule is unconventional.
The time she has available is not the norm so don’t be surprised if she asks for a 6 p.m. coffee date. She often times has midnight phone calls too. Bottom line is that you have to be prepared for anything at anytime.
16. It’s not about having time, it’s about making time.
The busy woman in your life may not always have the time for everything, but she will always make time. The important things will permanently be on her calendar. The busy woman is the queen of moving things around to fit how she wants, allowing time for the big things. She will make time for you.
17. Her heart is being pulled in a lot of different directions, but know she is fighting to give you as much as possible.
She has a lot of things on her mind and her heart, but she will give you everything she can. She will fight for your relationship with tenacity, but you need to know how to handle her lifestyle and what she needs from you. You mean a lot to her and her schedule will always include you.
HOW TO GET A BUSY GIRL ??
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So you know, some people love their jobs. Dating a busy person, or in the worst case a workaholic can present its own set of challenges when it comes to keeping your relationship in a good state.
Most people aren’t super invested in their jobs. They don’t care enough about them to put their relationships on the backburner. But if you just so happen to start dating a workaholic, you’ll quickly realize how difficult that can be.
You have to work a bit harder to maintain a healthy relationship than a lot of other couples. And believe me, it will not be easy. But if you care about this person and even admire their work ethic, the extra work is worth it.

Society tells us to value relationships more than work

For a lot of us, this is just what we believe. We grow up learning that the relationships you build are more important than your job. This can be completely true if you’re not someone who has what you believe a very important job.

But then there are people who end up with their dream jobs. The one thing they want to do most in life is right in front of them and that can make any romantic relationships a lot more difficult. You’re fighting against the norm here. Knowing how to make sure you come out on top is crucial.

Dating a busy person and keeping your relationship healthy

Once again, you’ll have to work hard. It might get difficult at times when you feel like their job is more important than you. But if you’re ready to take on this challenge, here’s how to make sure your relationship stays happy and healthy.

#1 They have to be willing to work for it, too. You can’t be the only person putting forth and effort to make it work. When their job becomes the only thing they care about, your relationship won’t last.

This is the very first thing you have to figure out when you realize you’re dating a workaholic. Ask them if they’re really in it and then see if their actions reflect what they say. Only then can you move forward and try.

#2 Schedule time together. They likely have a very busy schedule. That means you’ll have to find your way into it. Sometimes that means you both have to actually schedule time together. It’s like planning for date nights except you might just be planning time to hang out together uninterrupted at home.

#3 Visit them at work. If they’re at work far more than you are, go ahead and visit them if it’s allowed. You don’t have to stay long. Sometimes all you really need to is bring them a coffee and give them a kiss.

That can do a lot more for your relationship than it seems. This selfless act isn’t jut doing something kind for them. It’s also supporting their work and making an effort to be there during your free time.

#4 Support their work endlessly. When you’re dating a workaholic, you need to remember that they’re passionate about their work. That’s why they do it so much. You have got to be supportive of it if you want your relationship to work out.

If you’re not, they’ll see that. And if they’re a workaholic who really cares about what they’re doing, they won’t want to be with someone who doesn’t see the value in what they do. They’ll choose their job over you if you don’t support them.

#5 Learn more about why it’s so important. Get to know their job better. Ask them why it’s so important to them that they have to be working all the time. Sometimes all you really need is a better understanding of what’s going on in their head in order to make your relationship work out.

#6 Never cancel date nights. Both of you have to keep to this rule. Your scheduled date nights are one of the only things keeping your relationship normal. You have to have that intimate time.

Unless an emergency comes up, you should never be allowed to cancel date nights. And if you absolutely need to, they have to be rescheduled ASAP – preferably for the next day. Having that time to bond and have a sense of normalcy is too important to ignore.

#7 Make sure to stay involved with their work life. Try to help out. Why can’t you put forth some effort to integrate yourself in their work life a bit? Not only will it help you spend more time with them, but it’ll be really meaningful to your partner.

They’ll see the effort you’re making and it’ll feel like they finally found a teammate – someone who understands their priorities.

#8 Communicate when you feel neglected. You have to be able to talk to them. There will be times when their work will start to take over a bit. You have to be able to tell them when you’re feeling neglected so you can get back to a better place.

And they have to be open to receiving this, too. It’ll be easy for them to get upset and try to justify their actions, but they can’t. They have to be understanding and make some time for you again.

#9 Pick up the slack at home. Your significant other works a lot. You likely work a lot less than they do. That means you’ll have to pick up some slack for them. If they have to work all the time and then come home and do a ton of chores while you’ve been doing relatively nothing, it’ll upset them.

Work together to find a happy medium. You obviously don’t have to do every little thing but if you try to make it so you’re doing equal work, your relationship will benefit from it.

#10 Use the time they de-stress from work to bond. After they come home, they’ll want to sit down and not do much. They’re tired and they need to relax. That’s your opportunity to get close and have some intimate time.

Give them a back massage or rub their feet. Make them a dinner so you can eat together when they come home. It’s very simple stuff that can make the biggest difference in the happiness of your relationship.

#11 Never let your sex life lag. This is crucial. When your partner works a lot, they’ll be tired. But the thing is, sex is really important. It’s time for you two to connect and actually feel like a couple. So if you have to, schedule time for it. Don’t let it slack.

#12 Ask them what they need from you. They’re busy and they work a lot. The best way to know how to make a relationship work with them is to ask how. Ask them what they really need. You might be surprised what they ask of you.

When you’re dating a workaholic, things can get really confusing if you’re not sure how to handle it. These tips can ensure your relationship stays in tiptop shape.
here are some rules, to handle your busy woman
1. THEY ARE NOT THE “LAST MINUTE PLANS” TYPE.
If you text them at 2 pm wanting to see them at 6, sorry, but it’s probably not going to happen. Their calendars are usually booked solid, so no, they probably can’t meet up for a random drink, and no, you can’t stop by to watch a movie. they would love to hang out, but please plan in advance. they do well with notice.
2. SPONTANEOUS SLEEPOVERS CAN MESS UP OUR SCHEDULES.
When things are going well and you ask them to spend the night, they’ll probably say yes, but don’t be offended if they get up at 6 a.m. and leave your apartment. It’s not that they are not into you, it’s that they have a ton of stuff to do the next day.
3. THEY CAN’T GIVE BIG CHUNKS OF TIME UP FRONT.
When they meet their dates for dinners, shutting down the restaurant with laughter and conversation would be great… if they had the time. If they seem to be cutting things shorter than you had hoped, it’s not a sign that the date went horribly. It’s likely that they are on to their next thing or home to bed to rest up for another crazy day ahead.
4. MEN THINK THEY ARE UNINTERESTED OR PLAYING A GAME.
If the guys they are into don’t think they are flat out uninterested, they think they are “playing hard to get” or playing a game when they dodge dates they suggest. When they tell you their schedules, they hope that you’ll be able to make plans with them in the spaces they told you they are free. they are not playing any game, that’s just how it is. It’s as simple as that.
5. THEY ARE NOT GOOD AT GOING WITH THE FLOW.
That sounds like a nice idea, but it doesn’t always work for them. Their schedules are pretty precise, so as much as they want to go with this flow everyone seems to be in favor of, it’s just not built into their nature. they like structure and organization.
6. NOT KNOWING WHERE THE RELATIONSHIP IS GOING DRIVES THEM CRAZY.
When they date someone they actually like and they have been out with a few times, they will start to get anxiety about where things are going. It’s not that they want to rush things, they just need to know if they need to make time in our schedules to continue to grow this budding relationship. Are we doing this thing or not? Let them know, because if not, they have stuff to do.
7. CANCELLATIONS ARE TURN-OFFS AND SOMETIMES DEALBREAKERS.
Nothing annoys them more than last minute cancellations of plans. If you’re sick or there was some type of legitimate emergency, that’s cool, but otherwise, they are legitimately frustrated, so don’t be surprised if they are not enthusiastic about rescheduling.
8. THEY NEED CONFIRMATION OF PLANS.
It’s not that they are control freaks, it’s just that they are actually busy and want to be sure everything is still a go. Chances are, they have a busy work life that they balance with their social calendars, everyday life responsibilities, and maybe even a dedicated fitness routine. Because of this, they treat their dates like appointments and they need to confirm they’re still happening.
9. LATENESS SERIOUSLY ANNOYS THEM.
If you’re not on time, they are totally judging you. Not just because you just cut into the time they have scheduled to spend with you, but also because lateness is just plain rude.
10. THEY HATE WASTING THEIR TIME.
Because their time is precious and they don’t have a lot of it so if they have made some for you and it doesn’t work out, they feel genuinely defeated until they bring themselves to try the struggle all over again.
11. She’s not ignoring you.
It’s not that she doesn’t want to text you back or return your calls; she’s got a lot going on. She will get back to you as soon as possible, but be patient with her.
12. Her time is valuable, and your time with her is valuable so use it wisely.
She doesn’t have a lot of free time but that is probably obvious. So when you do get the chance at a chunk of her time, use it wisely. She doesn’t want to “figure something out” she wants to go somewhere, do something. Use the time you get with her to make memories she can remember while she’s on the run and missing you.
13. She needs support.
The busy girls need your support, almost more than others. She needs you to keep her sane and remind her that she can do everything she jumped into. You are her rock, if you give her the support she needs, she will give you the world.
14. If she invites you to events, take the opportunity.
You may feel like you don’t know all of her since she is always somewhere else. If she has the chance and invites you to events with her, she wants to show you what she’s involved in. This is her way of bonding with you while she is out and about. She wants to show you part of her life, take this opening.
15. Her schedule is unconventional.
The time she has available is not the norm so don’t be surprised if she asks for a 6 p.m. coffee date. She often times has midnight phone calls too. Bottom line is that you have to be prepared for anything at anytime.
16. It’s not about having time, it’s about making time.
The busy woman in your life may not always have the time for everything, but she will always make time. The important things will permanently be on her calendar. The busy woman is the queen of moving things around to fit how she wants, allowing time for the big things. She will make time for you.
17. Her heart is being pulled in a lot of different directions, but know she is fighting to give you as much as possible.
She has a lot of things on her mind and her heart, but she will give you everything she can. She will fight for your relationship with tenacity, but you need to know how to handle her lifestyle and what she needs from you. You mean a lot to her and her schedule will always include you.
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Flirting with your BOSS using FRACTIONATION

Flirting with your BOSS using FRACTIONATION

There are a lot of reasons that you might want to flirt with your boss. maybe you love her mature attitude or the sound of her high heels hitting the floor. or Maybe you feel a genuine attraction to your boss and are hoping to pursue a relationship. Regardless of your reasons, it’s important to know that flirting at work is a risky proposition, and must be handled with care. This video will walk you through assessing the risks, and then give you some tips for flirting with your boss, should you choose to proceed. by the way, check out the free review article about the best male enhancer ever. link in the description or right here success animation-reviews dot com

number one

Think about your motivations. You took the time to look up a video on how to flirt with your boss, so you are clearly giving this some thought already. Ask yourself why you want to flirt with your boss? Are you bored? Do you feel an attraction to your boss that you think could develop into a real relationship? Are you trying to gain some kind of advantage or favor in the workplace? Knowing why you are interested in flirting will help you determine if it’s worth the risk.

A bit of casual flirting with your boss might attract just enough extra attention to land you that key assignment you were hoping for, or help you secure a more desirable shift. Of course, this could also backfire depending on the culture of your workplace.

number two

 

Think about your limits. Do you intend to simply flirt and leave it at that, or are you hoping to eventually begin a romantic relationship with your boss? Figure out what your limits are, and don’t offer more than you intend to offer. Leading someone on is unlikely to get you anything you want.

number three

Be aware of possible consequences at work. Relationships in the workplace, especially between supervisors and employees, are prohibited in many companies. Getting involved with your boss might put one or both of you at risk for losing your jobs. If your flirting is unwelcome or excessive, you also run the risk of crossing the line from flirtation into sexual harassment, which in many offices can result in immediate termination. Finally, you might run the risk of losing your credibility or reputation for trustworthiness at work.

Even after-hours interactions with your boss can be used as a legal basis for one or both of you to be fired, so beware!

Research the relationship guidelines in your workplace before proceeding. If they aren’t published, ask an HR person for assistance.

If you are afraid to make these inquiries because you fear that people will gossip, remember that they will gossip even more if you get involved with your boss, so factor that into your decision.

number four

Consider possible social consequences. If your flirting doesn’t get you in trouble at work, it could still make you very unpopular. Other coworkers might look down on you for flirting with the boss, or become jealous if it looks like you are getting special treatment because of your flirting. You might also suffer from considerable embarrassment if the flirting goes badly, or you do end up in a relationship that doesn’t end well.

number five

 

Proceed cautiously. You’ve decided that it’s worth the risk, and you want to go ahead and flirt with your boss. Now be careful! Since there are so many possible risks, the best approach is to be very sensitive to any responses you might receive for your efforts, and subtle enough with your behavior that you can deny that flirting was your intention if it doesn’t go off as planned. Try to flirt without looking like you are flirting.

number six

 

Make eye contact. Making and holding eye contact is the first lesson of Flirting 101, and is sometimes the only tool you need to convey your interest in another person. Eye contact is an equally effective tool for men and for women, and can even make someone feel more attracted to you.

Try to catch your bosses eye in a meeting and hold her gaze a bit longer than you normally would.

When your boss addresses you, be sure to look her directly in the eye when she speaks to you.

Create more opportunities for eye contact by intentionally walking past your boss’s office more often, or arranging in person meetings in lieu of phone calls or emails.

Note that it takes more than a single passing glance to get the message across. It might take between 3 and 13 soulful looks for your boss to realize that you are trying to signal attraction.

Too much eye contact, however, can quickly become creepy, so be attentive to how you are being received. If your boss tries to avoid your gaze or seems shifty or uncomfortable, be sure to back off.

number seven

 

Smile. It seems like a simple piece of advice, but there are few things more appealing than a friendly, genuine smile. Interestingly enough, crow’s feet are the marker of a happy, non-forced smile, so don’t worry about any wrinkles you may or may not have. Flash your boss a real smile every now and again to let her know that you are pleased to see her.By definition, it’s hard to rehearse a genuine smile, but if you want to see what yours looks like, try thinking of something really funny and then looking in the mirror.

number eight

Be attentive. Pay close attention when your boss speaks to you and try to act interested, even if you aren’t particularly excited about the subject matter. Ask follow-up questions that show you are engaged, and make comments that show your enthusiasm. (“Wow, I had no idea!”)

Don’t overact on this one. Being genuine is more important than being attentive.

Mimicking your boss’s body language as you talk is a great non-verbal way to show you are paying attention.

number nine

 

Work in a casual touch. This is probably the riskiest move you can make when flirting with your boss, but it is one of the most effective ways of conveying your interest. Don’t proceed with this unless you are already getting some definitive, positive feedback from your earlier attempts (your boss reciprocates your eye contact and smiles, and seems very attentive to you). Offer a handshake and a smile at the end of a meeting.

Try a gentle, brief touch on the forearm or the shoulder when speaking with your boss.

If your boss makes a joke, laugh and place your hand on her forearm. Linger for a second before removing it.

Avoid any overtly affectionate or sexual touching in the workplace. This includes shoulder rubs, hugs, placing a hand on someone’s knee, etc. Even if the contact is desired, it could still get your fired.

number ten

Pay attention to the signals. Flirting with your boss is dangerous territory, so pay very close attention to the feedback you are getting, and take it slow. If your eye contact and smiles are being reciprocated, things are probably going well. If, however, your boss seems to be shifty or brisk around you, or seems to be going out of her way to avoid you, you have likely made her uncomfortable and should abort your flirtations immediately.

number eleven

 

Avoid actions you can’t take back. You might send a flirty text message or email to someone you are interested in outside of work, but written communication is hard to take back or ignore if things go awry, and should be avoided in a workplace flirtation or romance. You should also avoid obviously flirting in front of other people.

Remember that in many cases, your employer has the right to track and examine any emails you send or receive using a company-owned computer, or even texts and calls made from a company phone.

If your flirting is reciprocated and does proceed to the texting/emailing stage, remember to conduct your interactions using your personal computer and/or phone, and email accounts.

number twelve

 

Be honest and direct. If things go well, someone will eventually have to make a move if the relationship is going to progress. Because of the complexities involved in a workplace relationship, it is better to talk about the situation up front rather than plunge ahead with an overtly sexual advance. Be direct and honest about your intentions, and give your boss a chance to respond. It may feel awkward, but it’s important to be certain that you are both on the same page before things go any further.

Ask your boss to join you for coffee or lunch, and bring up the subject there.

Broach the subject gradually, and leave yourself an exit in case you misread the situation.

For example, you might begin with some work-related small talk and work towards the inquiry: “What do you think about office relationships?” Your boss’s answer to this should give you a pretty clear indication as to whether you should proceed or back off.

Remember: if it turns out you misread things and your boss is not interested, you will have a lot less to be embarrassed about from a straight-forward conversation than if you had attempted to kiss her, or worse.

 

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HOW TO GET CLOSE TO A WOMAN

HOW TO GET CLOSE TO A WOMAN
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Getting close to people is sometimes difficult. It is especially difficult when you want to get close to a woman for romantic reasons. As a result, you need to be very careful, move slowly, act naturally, and respect the woman you’re trying to get close to. Don’t force the relationship or hurry it along just because you are anxious about being with that special girl. Take it easy, and above all else, be honest to yourself.
number one

Pick the right moment. Make sure that you choose a very good and appropriate moment to first approach her. If you pick the right moment, you’ll be able to present yourself in the best light possible. Remember, first impressions are everything. Consider the following:
Avoid moments when she is busy or distracted.
Avoid inappropriate moments like during a lecture or exam.
Try to take advantage of a moment when you’ve naturally come into contact with her, like when both checking out in the lunch line, or in the library.
number two
Start off by introducing yourself, if you don’t already know her. Introductions are important, so don’t botch this up. Make sure your introduction is memorable and smooth. Put a little forethought into it. Consider:
Quickly telling her something interesting about yourself, so that you’re more memorable.
Asking her simple facts about herself, if you don’t already know.
Don’t keep her too long, if either of you are in the middle of going somewhere.
Comment about your surroundings.
number three
Maintain positive body language. Body language is extremely important when people make their first impressions of others. You want to do everything you can to come across as an interesting, relaxed, and likeable person.
Make sure to smile, when appropriate.
Avoid fidgeting.
Avoid crossing your arms or other nervous or threatening postures.
Maintain good posture: stand up straight, don’t hunch your shoulders forward, and hold your head up high.
number four

Do not boast. Boasting can be a really big conversation disaster. While it’s both a good thing and very tempting to try to talk yourself up when you initially meet her, this could be dangerous. You don’t want to come across as a braggart, as arrogant, or as overly confident. However, you do want to show yourself in the best light possible.
number five
Be a challenge. Avoid sending her the message that you’ll do anything to be with her and you’re essentially a pushover. Try to find the middle ground where she knows you want to be with her, but she knows she’s got to work a little bit too if she wants to be with you. There is no real formula for this, and you’ve got to feel it out as you get to know her.
Don’t play petty games like “if she doesn’t call me, I won’t call her.”
Avoid making your schedule completely open to her. After all, you’ve got your own friends and family, and they are important, too.
Give her time. Don’t return calls immediately (unless appropriate) and don’t expect phone calls back right away. Relax, and let things develop over time.
number six
Avoid being overbearing. You don’t want to come across as the person who is obsessed with her and will do anything to be in her life. Give her space when appropriate. Remember, if she likes you and wants to be close to you, she’ll probably do something to send you signals or to reciprocate your interest and feelings.
Don’t call her every day.
Don’t ask her out every weekend, unless she suggests that she wants to go out, too.
Don’t invite yourself to events where she’ll be, and try to work yourself into her social activities.
number seven
Be humorous. Humor makes most people more relaxed. Most people also like to be around others who are humorous or funny. Humor might relax you, too, and you might seem less awkward or nervous. But remember, you don’t need to be a comedian, just add in humor wherever it seems appropriate.
number eight
Act naturally. Above and beyond all else, act naturally and be true to yourself. You don’t want to make yourself into someone completely different just to get close to the girl that interests you. You want someone who will like – and maybe love – you for who you are. If who you are makes it so she doesn’t want to be close to you, that’s okay. Maintain the friendship, but move on and find another romantic interest. Everything will work out for you in the end.
number nine
Listen to her. Listening is the most important part of forming a relationship with anyone. This is because most people enjoy talking about themselves, their problems, and their interests. You’ll do very well by quieting yourself and listening to the girl that you’re interested in dating.
Be conscious of how much you talk and how much you talk about yourself.
Ask her questions about herself and what she thinks.
Pay attention to what she says, and avoid day dreaming.
number ten

Notice all of her good qualities, both physical and intellectual. People like to be noticed, and they like to think that others think highly of them. Take some time to notice the little things about her or even the small things that you just love about her. This might be the way she smiles, the way she laughs, and more. Figure out what she’s good at (it could be sports, academics, her job) and what she takes pride in. This is an important part of moving to the next level, because it will send the signal that you’re interested in more than just friendship.
Feel free to compliment her; tell her you love her eyes, or that she has an infectious laugh. Try to avoid focusing on her body, which can be uncomfortable for girls.
Let her know you’ve noticed when she is good at something or when she takes pride in something.
number eleven

Learn who she is as an individual. After you’ve gotten to know her generally, you should invest more time in finding what makes her a unique person. Engage in long discussions. Consider the following:
Talk to her about her aspirations and what interests her.
Discuss people who influence both of you.
Find out what drives her and who and what she cares about the most.
number twelve
Pay attention to her moods and feelings. One of the most important things about growing close to a girl is understanding when and why she feels certain ways sometimes. Pay attention to her. Know what makes her happy, what makes her sad, and why she feels the way she does about things she cares about.
Is she grumpy in the morning? She may not be a morning person.
What makes her most happy? Is it spending time with family or friends?
Does her job or school make her happy or miserable.
number thirteen
Understand her sense of humor and pop culture interests. You’ve already had your chance to be funny and share your humor. Take the time to form an understanding of her interests and sense of humor.
Talk to her about what she likes watching, what music she likes, and what she thinks is funny.
Watch TV together, and pay attention to the shows she likes.
Invite her to a comedy club or a movie and ask her to pick the performer or show.
number fourteen
Find activities that you both enjoy together. Finding activities that you both enjoy will help you form a deeper relationship and connection. It will help you understand what you both have in common. It will allow you to watch how she interacts with others. It will also help you work together as a team. Consider:
Letting each of you rotate picking the location/activity of a date.
Each proposing an idea and then choosing which one suits you as a couple.
Trying a different activity each date to test as many possibilities as you can.
number fifteen
Never tell lies to her. Be honest about who you are and what you are like. You don’t want to build a relationship on dishonesty and deception. Such a relationship would just be one that would falter and fade later.
Don’t lie or embellish your reputation and your achievements.
Be honest about what you like to do for fun and what interests you.
Be honest, but don’t be blunt or insulting. If she asks you a question, don’t blurt out whatever you are thinking. Answer her questions truthfully, but tactfully and carefully.
number sixteen

Show her that you are always there for her. You need to work to demonstrate that you are more than just a fairweather friend. You’re there for the good times and the bad times. This will signal to her that she is an important part of your life.
Talk to her and console her when she does poorly on an exam.
Offer support when there has been a death in the family or a divorce.
Bring her small gifts when she’s sick or down.
Ask her how she’s doing when you see her. If you notice something is bothering her, ask her if she want’s to talk about it. But don’t push too hard.
number seventeen
Share your dreams with each other. Try to spark some conversations in which you can share your dreams with each other. This will be important as it will help you learn more about each other as individuals. As a result, you should be able to grow closer to each other.
Spend a date, like a picnic, talking about where you both want to be in 5, 10 and 20 years.
Talk about where you both want to live, ideally.
Talk about your career and family aspirations.
number eighteen

Show affection. Show affection when and if it is appropriate to do so. Showing affection might help draw you closer to each other, and will signal to her that you care about her and want to take your relationship to the next level. If she reciprocates, you’ll definitely know that you’ve been successful. But be careful and consider:
Showing affection may include hugs, snuggling, kissing, and even thoughtful and loving looks and comments.
Only show affection if it is appropriate to do so, and if she consents and is enthusiastic.
If she rebuffs your affection or tells you not to do so, stop immediately. She might not be ready, so give her time and be sure to move at a pace that is comfortable for both of you.

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How to Make Eye Contact with your crush

How to Make Eye Contact with your crush
Making eye contact can be tricky, especially if you are shy, or nervous, but good eye-contact is important for building trust and engaging an audience. Even if you struggle to hold eye-contact now, all it takes is a little practice to confidently hold someone’s gaze.
number one

Turn your shoulders and head to face the other person’s eyes. Opening up your body to the other person tells them you are listening, engaged, and ready to communicate. It also makes eye contact easier and more natural to maintain. Position yourself a few feet away from the other person’s face.
number two
Choose a focal point near the eyes. Most commonly, this is one of the other people’s eyes, but if your are uncomfortable you can look between their eyes, just under or above the eye, or at the earlobe.
number three
Make gentle eye-contact. Think of how you would look at a painting or great view — you are not focusing intently on their eye but instead looking at them gently. Hold your eyes in this position and resist darting them around. Relax your gaze by breathing slowly as you make eye-contact and nodding occasionally while you listen.
number four
Break eye contact briefly every 5-15 seconds. Too much eye-contact can be as off-putting as none at all. While you don’t need to count the seconds, you should look away every once in a while to keep the conversation light and easy, but only for a few seconds. Some casual ways to do so include:
Laughing, nodding, and acknowledging the other person.
Looking at the sky/weather.
Looking off to the side briefly, as if remembering something.
Running your hands through your hair.
number five, when it comes to a crowd

Look slightly above the crowd. You will never be able to make eye-contact with every person in a large group, so don’t even try! Aim your eyes 2-3 inches above the heads of the group without focusing on one particular person.
If you are at a podium or raised above the crowd, aim for the middle of the crowd without focusing on one particular person.
number six Shift your gaze every every few sentences. You do not want to look straight ahead the entire time you are speaking. Every so often, turn your head a different direction. Try to look at every section of the crowd once or twice so that the whole audience feels like they have your attention.
number seven
Alternatively, choose 4-5 people to look at. This works best if you know several people in the crowd and feel comfortable speaking to them, like a classroom presentation. Simply rotate your gaze from one to the other every 10-15 seconds.

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